ATTITUDE OF CONFIDENCE

• What is the attitude of confidence, and what does confidence require of us?

• What are the ways that we can improve our confidence?

The attitude of confidence is a feeling of being sure of myself and abilities. That is, a quiet inner knowledge that I am capable and feel secure. With the attitude of confidence, I find trust, belief, courage, credence, conviction, steadiness, fearless, dare, assertiveness, excellence, creativity, valued, clarity, responsibility and the power of commitment.

Confidence is the force and the power that allows me to experience freedom, fulfillment, balance, and harmony. It is one of the soulful attitudes that has allowed me to re-create my life through excellence in action. It is through the attitude of confidence, I maintain my success profiles, and make it a priority to nurture myself with a steady diet of commitment, motivation, and inspiration to live my life with a powerful sense of purpose and mission.

However, I had to do the work, to transform my belief system or internal narratives to one in which I could maintain an authentic interaction with my true nature. With that said, the attitude of confidence comes from feelings of well-being, acceptance of our body and mind (our self-esteem) and belief in our own ability, skills, and experience.

Thus, the question remains, what does the attitude of confidence require of us? Allow me to share with you my personal response to this question. That is, through the years as an entrepreneur, the attitude of confidence requires me to be true to the following:

• Questioning the integrity of my beliefs and knowing that I am good enough. I am skilled enough. I am intelligent enough. I have enough heart. I am meant for more.

• Taking 100% responsibility for my life and choosing to accept personal accountability to construct an unshakable footing that continues to motivate and inspire me to leverage my natural talents and core values.

• Highlighting my strengths and successes and learning from my weaknesses and mistakes.

Please feel free to email me your response or your comment to the above questions at windsor@lindorconsulting.com. However, the question remains, what must be different in order to improve our confidence or self-confidence? To answer this question, I must note that we cannot experience confidence, live a life on a pool of distrust, live a life from a subjective point of view at the same time. We are either a believer, daring and eager to embrace objective reality and learn to build our self-confidence, improve the scale of our emotional intelligence quotient, and live the life we desire, or we can remain stuck in a pool of distrust and fear.

With this in mind, I submit to improve our confidence or self-confidence, we must first give ourselves permission to be fearless, and stop paying lip-service to our commitment for creating our own limitless belief, and becoming free of the patterns of the past through transformational change. I also believe, improving our confidence or self-confidence requires us to:

• Question our inner critic, and be receptive to positive thinking, practice, training, and knowledge.

• Set ourselves up to win by planning, establishing smart goals that we can win easily through the power commitment, persistent, courage, determination, discipline, focus, evaluation, imagination, and purposeful ACTION.

• Translate our core value to all areas of our lives as we build our self-worth and our ability to take personal accountability for what we are experiencing.

• Improve the scale of our emotional intelligence quotient through discipline, persistent, courage, commitment, and ‘will power’ as we approach life’s situations from an objective reality.

On the final analysis, this is our individual lives. It remains our choice how we choose to feel about our beingness and abilities. However, the questions remain:

• Do we have a soul craving?

• Does our spirit thirst for something with more significance as a blind person yearns for light?

I believe these questions are about the call to fill our heart center with courage, open our mind, raise our quality of commitment and invest on a proven process that will lead us to eliminate the distractions that are keeping us from taking the next steps that will lead us to master the art of confidence, be receptive to trust, belief, faith, credence, conviction, steadiness, fearless, assertiveness, creativity and become powerful enough to create a culture of success.

Written By: Windsor Lindor, ELC

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